We are in a cultural and social battle for our families, our marriages and the souls of our children, and this is no small battle. I believe that there are some strategic, intentional actions we can take to love and lead our family well, protect our marriage and raise our kids to be all they can be.
I remember when I was about 14 my dad and I visited Cape Town.
GPS’ weren’t that popular and he had me reading the map and figuring out where to go to get to our next destination.
A street map aids road navigation. Nowadays, a GPS automates road directions by replacing map reading with mindlessly executing step-by-step commands fed to you by an unknown voice with an accent.
There’s no such thing as a man GPS. We can not leave loving our wives and raising our kids up to chance. As a man, husband, and father we need other men. We need a Game Plan, the what, the how, the when and the why. We need to put effort into loving and leading our family, be a dialed-in dad and an intentional man.
Here’s are 2 action steps you can take today:
- Intentional Conversations
This needs a little forethought and planning. I am a big believer in asking open-ended questions to get a conversation started.
- Meaningful Experiences
These can be as small as leaving a note on the bathroom mirror or going on a special holiday. When we share a meaningful experience, it boosts our sense of belonging, and this, in turn, makes us feel life is worthwhile.
What are some things that you do that are intentional to connect with your wife or children?